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Couples the Presqu'île, Lyon

We both work in restaurants, so our weekend is Sunday and Monday

Posted as sunday_monday_people

Looking for
somebody whose free days are the days nobody else has
Experience
Nineteen years together, eight of them in this, one long arrangement.
Around
the Presqu'île, Lyon

Our weekend is Sunday and Monday. We are at work every evening that anybody else is free, and in this city that is not an unusual life at all. It is simply an incompatible one with almost everybody on this board, and we have stopped hiding it in paragraph three.

Forty four and forty six, central, together nineteen years, eight of them with this openly between us. He is submissive to me and that has been the shape of it since a conversation on a very bad night after service.

What we are looking for is one submissive man for a long arrangement with me, with my husband fully in the picture and involved to whatever extent everybody is comfortable with. The real requirement is availability. Sunday afternoon and evening, or Monday, or the occasional weekday morning. That rules out nearly anybody with an ordinary job, which is most people.

Our previous arrangement ran four years with somebody in the same trade, which solved the scheduling neatly and produced a different problem when he changed jobs and moved to the other end of the country. We are still in touch and it ended well.

Not looking for anyone who can only manage a Friday. Not looking for a person who wants to be part of the household in a live in sense. Not looking to be asked whether we can get anybody a table anywhere, which happens, and which we find funnier than we probably should.

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