Fifteen years in this city and I have run out of new people
Posted as same_forty_faces
- Looking for
- somebody who has not been in the same rooms as me for a decade
- Experience
- Fifteen years, five dynamics, four of them with people I already knew.
- Around
- Croix-Rousse, Lyon
There are, at a generous count, about forty people in the part of this world I move in, and I have known most of them for ten years. Four of my five dynamics came out of that group. Two of the four ended badly enough that everybody had to arrange themselves around the fact for a year afterwards, which is exactly the trouble with a group of forty.
Forty four, dominant, up the hill, fifteen years. So I am on a board, which several of those forty people would find very funny, and which is the only way I can think of to meet somebody who does not already hold an opinion about me.
What I want is a long dynamic with a submissive of any gender. Protocol, service, standing rules, an evening that does not move, correction that is spoken and precise. I am formal, I am not theatrical, and I have no interest whatsoever in doing any of this anywhere anybody can watch.
I will be honest about the awkward part. If you have been around here a while you may already know something about me. Some of it will be true and some of it will be one side of a story. I would much rather you asked me directly than decided quietly.
Not looking for anyone currently involved with somebody in that circle, because I have watched what that does. Not looking to be introduced to your friends. Not looking for a person who wants a dominant with a reputation, which is a thing people come looking for here and which I find dismal.