Fifty eight, not retiring, and I have exactly two evenings a week
Posted as two_evenings_no_more
- Looking for
- a submissive who wants depth rather than frequency
- Experience
- Twenty four years, three arrangements, the longest running twelve.
- Around
- the Presqu'île, Lyon
Half the posts I read from people my age begin with retirement and an excess of time. Mine does not. I run something, I intend to keep running it, and what I have to offer is two evenings a week and one weekend in three, indefinitely.
Fifty eight, dominant, central, twenty four years in this. Three arrangements of substance. The longest ran twelve years alongside a job very much like the one I have now, so I know this shape works, because I have done it.
What makes it work is that the structure lives outside the evenings. Rules that operate daily. Reporting at fixed times. Tasks that do not require me in the room. By the time we are in the same place, nothing is being caught up on, and the evening can be what it is meant to be rather than an administrative meeting with a pleasant ending.
I am formal, I write carefully, and I expect the same. Very little interest in impact and a great deal in protocol, service and being obeyed in small ordinary matters. I can host, I live alone, and I am not going to be moving.
Not looking for daily company. Not looking for anybody who will read two evenings as a lack of seriousness, which is a conversation I have had and lost. Not looking for somebody who needs me available in a crisis at three in the afternoon, because I will be working and I will not answer.