Madrid couple, and we would honestly just like the dinner
Posted as four_at_a_table
- Looking for
- another couple for long dinners and slow conversation
- Experience
- Together seven years, four of them with this in the open.
- Around
- the centre, Madrid
The best evening we have had in this was three years ago, with another couple, and nothing happened. We ate for four hours, talked about how each of us got here, argued about aftercare, and went home separately at two in the morning. We have never managed to repeat it and we have been trying since.
We are twenty eight and thirty, together seven years, in Madrid. He follows, I lead, and it has been openly part of us for four years. We are not looking for a third person and we are not looking for an arrangement.
What we want is friendship with people who know. Both of us have close friends who have no idea, and it turns out that keeping a fairly central part of your life out of every conversation gets heavier the longer you do it. We would like to be able to say a normal sentence about our week to somebody at a table.
If that friendship eventually includes anything else, fine, and we would want to talk about it for a long time first, and we would want all four people talking rather than two of us deciding. We are free most evenings after ten and every Sunday. We are in the middle of the city and we will happily come out to you.
We are not interested in couples who want to move quickly. We are not interested in being anybody's first outing. And we would ask that both of you write, at least once, because we have learned what it means when only one of you does.