He works away all week, so we are a weekend couple asking for weekdays
Posted as monday_to_friday_apart
- Looking for
- one person for her during the week, with his full involvement
- Experience
- Together three years, this from the start, one previous arrangement each.
- Around
- Salford, Manchester
He is in Aberdeen from Monday morning to Friday night, every week, and has been for two years. We are a couple who see each other at weekends and we have stopped pretending that is temporary, because the money is good and the alternative is worse.
Twenty six and twenty seven, Salford, together three years. He is dominant, I am submissive, and that has been true since about our third date.
What we are looking for is somebody for me during the week. He has been part of that conversation from the first minute and he is not being generous about it, he is genuinely keen, which took me a while to believe. The arrangement we want is that whoever this is talks to him too. Not for permission in a possessive sense, but because three people all knowing what is happening is the only version of this that has ever worked for anybody.
We would like it to be ongoing and we are not in a rush to get there. A dominant of any gender. Somebody who is comfortable with the fact that I go quiet on Friday nights because my husband comes home.
Not looking for anyone who wants to compete with him or replace him. Not looking for somebody who would rather he did not exist. Not looking for anything that has to happen at weekends, because those are the only ones we get.