Everyone we know already knows us, which is exactly the problem
Posted as outside_the_circle
- Looking for
- one submissive from completely outside our existing circle
- Experience
- Together nine years, both of us in this for longer than that.
- Around
- Didsbury, Manchester
We have been part of the same group of about thirty people for six years. We like them. Two of them are the closest friends we have. And that is the reason we are writing to strangers, because everybody in that group already has an opinion about us, and half of them have an opinion about each other, and nothing that starts in there stays uncomplicated for long.
Forty and thirty eight, together nine years, Didsbury. He leads, I do not, and I am writing this with him sat next to me correcting my punctuation.
What we would like is one submissive woman for something long and domestic rather than dramatic. Regular evenings, a defined place in how our week runs, a written agreement we all revisit every few months. We have done this once before, for four years, and it ended because she moved to Bristol and not because anything went wrong.
The one thing we would ask is that you are genuinely not connected to us. If you already know our friends, this will end up being discussed at somebody's birthday within a month, and none of us will enjoy that.
We move slowly and we meet in public more than once before anything else. Not looking for a person who wants only one of us. Not looking for anybody hoping this becomes a romance with three people in it. Not looking to rush a decision by autumn.