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Submissives the city centre, Manchester

Twenty four, and yes I do want somebody considerably older

Posted as older_on_purpose

Looking for
an experienced dominant who will not enjoy the gap too much
Experience
Eighteen months, one dynamic, ended when he moved away.
Around
the city centre, Manchester

I want somebody a good deal older than me and I am aware of how that reads. I have watched other people my age post the same thing and get answers from men who are far too pleased about it, and I have learned to tell the difference, so I am going to be specific about what I mean.

Twenty four, city centre, submissive, eighteen months in, one dynamic of about a year that ended when he took a job in Bristol.

What I want from experience is not authority for its own sake. It is somebody who has already made their mistakes on somebody else. Who knows what to do when a scene goes sideways, who negotiates without being prompted, and who is not going to be figuring out their own limits at the same time as mine. That is what the age is for. It is not a fantasy about being small.

I am at university, my hours are irregular, and I cannot host at all.

Not looking for anyone who uses the word little, in any of its senses, about me. Not looking for a person whose main interest is that I am new, because being new is temporary and I would like this not to be. Not looking to be told what I want at length, which happened for two months last year and I let it go on far too long before I stopped answering.

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