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Dominants Didsbury, Manchester

The same man has now written to me under three different names

Posted as three_different_names

Looking for
a submissive capable of one honest paragraph about himself
Experience
Seventeen years, four dynamics, two of them long.
Around
Didsbury, Manchester

Three times this year I have had a first message that was the same first message with a different name on it. Same phrasing, same slightly wrong use of the word protocol, same request in the fourth line. I know it is one person because he mentioned the same dog twice.

That is the state of my inbox and it is why this post is shorter and blunter than the last one I wrote. Forty three, dominant woman, Didsbury, seventeen years in. I am not new, I am not curious, and I am not going to explain what any of the words mean.

What I want is one submissive man for something that runs for years rather than weeks. Consistency matters to me far more than intensity. Somebody who does what he said he would do on a wet Tuesday when nobody is watching is worth ten people who can perform beautifully for one evening.

Write me a paragraph about your actual life. Your work, your week, what you are like when things go badly. If I cannot tell you apart from the last four messages I will not answer, and I have stopped feeling rude about that. I will not be addressed by any title before I have met you, I am not interested in anything involving money in either direction, and I am not going to be the one supplying all the questions.

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