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Dominants Salford, Manchester

Away for three weeks at a stretch, and then entirely here

Posted as three_weeks_out

Looking for
a submissive who wants a great deal of me, some of the time
Experience
Fourteen years, three dynamics, two of them run around a tour schedule.
Around
Salford, Manchester

I do production work for touring, which means I disappear for three weeks and then have ten days at home doing very little. That has been my year, every year, since I was thirty. It suits me. It has suited exactly one of the three people I have had dynamics with.

Forty seven, Salford, dominant, fourteen years in.

The honest version of what I am offering is this. When I am away I am useless in the evenings and often in a different time zone, but I am reachable in the mornings and I am reliable about it. When I am home I am completely available in a way most people with normal jobs never are: whole weekdays, no early alarm, nothing else in the diary. It is feast and famine and I have stopped apologising for the famine part.

What I want is one submissive, ongoing, who finds that shape appealing rather than merely tolerable. Structure that runs through the away weeks, and then a fortnight where I actually have time to do this properly. I am methodical, I plan everything, and I am much warmer in person than this post makes me sound.

Not looking for someone who wants a message at the same hour every night. Not looking for anything that needs me at a fixed weekly slot, because there is no such thing in my year. Not looking for a person who will treat three weeks of my absence as three weeks of evidence about how I feel.

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