Twenty eight and dominant, which people keep treating as a phase
Posted as too_young_apparently
- Looking for
- a submissive who is not going to price my age into the negotiation
- Experience
- Six years, two dynamics, one of them three years long.
- Around
- the northern quarter, Manchester
The most common reply I get is some version of being told I will understand this properly when I am older. Usually from men twenty years above me, usually within the first four messages, and usually phrased as helpfulness. I have started keeping a mental tally and it is not a small one.
Twenty eight, northern quarter, dominant woman, six years in. That is not a long time and I have never claimed it is. It is also not nothing, and one of those six years was a three year dynamic that ended well and that I still get a message from at Christmas.
What I want is one submissive for something ongoing and reasonably formal. I like structure. I am specific about standards and I am not cruel about failure, because failing honestly at something difficult is the interesting part and punishing it out of existence would be pointless.
I would rather you were experienced. Genuinely. I learn from people who know more than I do and I have no ego about it. What I will not do is hand over the running of the thing because you have been at it longer.
Not looking for anybody who wants to mentor me into what I really am. Not looking for someone who thinks a woman my age must be doing this for attention. Not looking for anything involving money, and the number of people who assume otherwise from my age is genuinely tiresome.