Arrived from Bogota in January, dominant, and starting from nothing
Posted as arrived_in_january
- Looking for
- a submissive, and honestly also somebody to talk to
- Experience
- Nine years, all of it at home, none of it here.
- Around
- Wynwood, Miami
I arrived in January with two suitcases and a job. In Bogotá I had nine years of history in this, people who knew me, a reputation I had built carefully. Here I am nobody, which is a strange feeling at thirty three, and I did not expect it to be the hard part.
Wynwood, dominant, nine years in, none of it in this country.
What I have found is that being new is worse in a big scene than in a small one. At home a person could ask three people about me and get an answer. Here there is nothing to ask about, so every conversation starts with me claiming things about myself, which is exactly the position I would tell somebody else to be careful of.
So I would rather go slowly and let somebody form their own view. I am happy to meet several times before anything, to be asked hard questions, and to be treated with the caution I would want a friend of mine to use.
What I want eventually is one submissive and a long structured dynamic. What I want immediately is to know some people, because I have been here seven months and my entire social life is two colleagues.
I write English well and speak it with more accent than I would like. If Spanish is easier for you, better still.