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Switches Wynwood, Miami

I tattoo for a living and I am awake at three

Posted as awake_at_three

Looking for
somebody nocturnal, or at least somebody flexible about it
Experience
Five years, both sides, mostly with friends.
Around
Wynwood, Miami

I work from early afternoon until late, and by the time I am home and unwound it is two or three in the morning and I am wide awake and want company. Nobody with a job is available then, which I have made peace with, mostly.

Twenty nine, Wynwood, nonbinary, switch, five years in.

Everything I have done in this has been with friends, which has been warm and easy and has also meant I have never had to negotiate with somebody who did not already know me. I would like to try the other thing. Meeting a stranger properly, doing the work of explaining myself, building something rather than sliding into it.

I switch and I am pretty even about it. What I want is somebody who can be exact with me, because I am chaotic in most areas of my life and the appeal of somebody holding a line is not subtle.

My mornings are free until about noon and my Mondays are entirely empty. If you are a night worker of any kind, we are on the same clock and that is rarer than it sounds.

I am not looking to be somebody's first experience of a person like me. That has happened three times and each time the whole thing became a seminar. Ask me what I want, not what I am.

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