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Dominants Coral Gables, Miami

Argentinian, forty seven, and I say exactly what I mean

Posted as i_say_what_i_mean

Looking for
a submissive who prefers directness to hints
Experience
Nineteen years, three long dynamics, two of them here.
Around
Coral Gables, Miami

I have been in this country eleven years and the thing I have never got used to is how much people say without saying it. In Buenos Aires if I did not want something I said so and nobody was wounded. Here I am told I am blunt, sometimes as a compliment and sometimes not, and at forty seven I have stopped adjusting for it.

Coral Gables, dominant, nineteen years in.

So you should expect the following. I will tell you plainly what I want and what I will not do. If you ask me a question I will answer it, including the answers people prefer to soften. And I will assume, unless you tell me otherwise, that when you say yes you mean yes, because I have no talent for reading a no that is dressed as a maybe.

That last part is the one that matters. I need somebody who can say the word. Not hint, not go quiet, not agree and then be unhappy about it for a week. If saying no directly to a person in charge is difficult for you, we should work on that slowly before anything else happens, and I am willing to.

My English is excellent but it is not my first language and my jokes sometimes land strangely. I would rather you asked than assumed.

I want something long, structured and calm. Not theatre.

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