I work on boats, my hands are wrecked, and I am direct
Posted as the_boatyard
- Looking for
- a service dynamic with somebody practical
- Experience
- Twenty two years, three dynamics, all of them domestic.
- Around
- Fort Lauderdale, Miami
I have been in the marine trade since I was nineteen. My hands are a mess, my back is worse, and I smell of diesel more days than not. I mention it because people who have built a picture of a dominant out of what they have read are frequently surprised by me, and I would rather they were surprised now.
Fifty two, Fort Lauderdale, dominant, twenty two years in.
What I want is domestic and practical. Somebody who is part of how my house runs. Standing duties, a routine, the pleasure of a thing being done properly without me having to ask twice. I have had three arrangements like that, the longest of them seven years, and every one of them was more about Tuesday than about Saturday night.
I am not a talker. I will not send you long messages analysing our dynamic, because I do not have that in me, and two people have found that a serious problem. What I do instead is notice everything and say the important part out loud once.
I get up at five. I am in bed by ten. I work Saturdays in the season.
I am not interested in anybody who wants a fantasy version of a man who works with his hands. It is a job. It is loud, hot and repetitive, and I would rather talk about almost anything else.