Chronic illness, air conditioning, and a very small radius
Posted as air_conditioned_hours
- Looking for
- a dominant who treats a bad week as information rather than failure
- Experience
- Nine years, three dynamics, all of them adapted.
- Around
- Brickell, Miami
I have an autoimmune condition that the heat makes considerably worse, which is an unfortunate thing to have in this particular city. From May to October I am functionally indoors. Even in winter, an afternoon outside costs me the following day and I have to decide in advance whether it is worth it.
Forty six, Brickell, submissive, nine years in.
Here is what I need somebody to understand. A bad week is not a loss of interest, it is a bad week, and it arrives without warning and leaves the same way. I will tell you honestly which kind of day I am having and I need that to be received as information rather than as a disappointment I have to manage on top of everything else.
What I can offer is real and quite specific. I am home a great deal, so I am reliable at anything that does not require a body in motion. Written tasks. Daily structure. Long, unhurried conversation. Service I can do sitting down. Two of my three dynamics were mostly this and both were excellent.
I would rather be with somebody who has a chronic thing of their own, or who has cared for a person who does, purely because that person does not hear a limit as an opening offer.
I am not fragile and I am not looking for a carer. I have doctors. I want a dominant.