I opened an account last September and this is my first sentence on it
Posted as read_for_a_year
- Looking for
- a long dynamic with someone who is also in no hurry
- Experience
- Four years of knowing it. One dynamic, seven months, ended when he left.
- Around
- the centre, Moscow
Eight months of reading other people's posts twice a week, the way you read a newspaper you have no intention of writing to. I could probably tell you which of the regulars here have changed their wording and which have not. That is an embarrassing thing to admit and I am admitting it anyway, because it explains the tone of the rest of this.
Thirty four, submissive, translation work for a company that would be very unhappy to know about any of this, living alone in the centre, which is the only real luxury I have.
What I learned from eight months of reading is that the slow posts are the ones still being answered in the spring. Three sentences and a demand goes nowhere here. The people who described an ordinary Tuesday, or a limit and why it is one, or something they had got badly wrong, were still around months later having conversations.
So: a long dynamic, with rules that reach into ordinary days rather than into occasional evenings. I want to be accountable to somebody about small consistent things and corrected in a way that is not performance. Meetings on their own do nothing for me.
I will ask a great many questions before I agree to be in a room with you, and if that reads as coldness it is not. Not looking for photographs before a conversation. Not looking for a dominant who is currently running four of these and would like a fifth.