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Submissives Queens, New York

Will travel anywhere in the five boroughs, would like a reply

Posted as borough_hop

Looking for
somebody who answers, even when the answer is no
Experience
Four years, two dynamics, both fine while they lasted.
Around
Queens, New York

I have sent nineteen messages this year. I have had four replies. Two of those were one word. This is not a complaint about any particular person, it is a description of the board, and I understand that in a city this size everybody is drowning in options.

So here is my offer to whoever reads this. I will always reply. If I am not interested I will say so in a sentence. You will never be left refreshing anything because of me.

Twenty six, Queens, submissive, four years in. I will travel anywhere in the five boroughs and I mean it, including to the parts of the Bronx everybody else on this board pretends do not exist. I do not drive, but I am extremely good at trains.

What I want is a dominant who is present. Not constantly, not intensely, simply reliably there when they said they would be. I once had someone cancel four times in a row and still ask to reschedule, and I let it happen because I was flattered, and I will not do that again.

Not looking for a lot of talk with no meeting at the end of it. Not looking for anyone who wants to establish a whole dynamic over text before we have been in the same room. Not looking to be somebody's backup plan on a Tuesday.

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