Fifty, dominant, and I make everything we would ever use
Posted as the_workbench
- Looking for
- someone who finds patience and craft more interesting than novelty
- Experience
- Twenty two years, two long dynamics, both slow and domestic.
- Around
- the 20th, Paris
I have a workshop at the back of my apartment and almost everything in my life that could be made by hand has been. That is not a claim about skill. It is a description of temperament: I would rather spend eleven evenings making something adequate than one evening acquiring something better.
Fifty, Paris, dominant, twenty two years. That same temperament is how I run a dynamic, and it is worth knowing before you write. Nothing happens quickly. Structure is built one small piece at a time and each piece is used for a while before the next is added. People who want an evening that arrives fully formed find me very dull.
Two long dynamics, one of nine years and one of four. Both domestic, both quiet, both largely invisible to anybody outside them. What I want is a submissive who takes pleasure in doing a small thing extremely well and repeatedly. That is most of what service is, in my experience, and it is nothing at all like the way it gets written about.
There is very little impact in what I do. There is a great deal of waiting, precision and correction. I would want to write first, then meet several times in public, then continue writing. I am unhurried to the point that two people have found it insulting.
Not looking for anybody who wants a collar in the first month. Not looking for anybody who is collecting experiences. And not looking to be asked what I can offer, which is a question I have never known how to answer without sounding like a catalogue.