We are a good couple in the wrong zone and we know it
Posted as nobody_comes_north
- Looking for
- a submissive who will actually come to this side of the city
- Experience
- Together fifteen years, structured for nine, one previous arrangement.
- Around
- the north zone, Rio de Janeiro
We have had this conversation with eleven people and nine of them stopped replying at the point where the address came up. We have stopped being offended and started putting it in the first paragraph.
Forty one and forty three, north zone, together fifteen years, with a structure in the marriage for nine of them. She leads. He does not and never has wanted to.
What we are looking for is one submissive, of any gender, for a long arrangement within an established household. We had this before, for two and a half years, with somebody who lived twenty minutes from us and for whom the whole zone question simply did not exist. It ended when he moved for work and we are still in touch.
What it looks like: two evenings most weeks, standing duties in between, a written understanding, and a review every few months. Domestic rather than dramatic. Both previous conversations that got far assumed something more theatrical and were disappointed.
We can host, we have a whole floor of a house, and we are a great deal more comfortable than anything either of us could afford ten minutes from the water. Not looking for somebody who will agree to the journey and then start suggesting we meet in the middle every time. Not looking for a person who wants only one of us. Not looking for anyone who needs this to be quick, because we take months.