My whole life happens before one in the afternoon
Posted as only_in_the_morning
- Looking for
- somebody with mornings, which almost nobody here has
- Experience
- Nine years, both directions, one dynamic built entirely on breakfasts.
- Around
- the south zone, Rio de Janeiro
I am awake at five, I am useful until about one, and after that I am a slower and considerably less interesting person. This is not discipline. It is simply how I have always been and twenty years of trying to be an evening person has produced nothing but bad decisions made at eleven at night.
Thirty nine, south zone, switch, nine years. The best arrangement I ever had ran on weekday mornings for two years. We saw each other three times a week before either of us had spoken to another human being, and it was the calmest, clearest version of this I have ever had.
The problem is obvious. Almost nobody is free at half past seven in the morning, and the ones who are tend to be tired rather than available.
What I want is an even switch dynamic, both directions, with somebody whose hours are strange in the same direction as mine. Protocol interests me. Long elaborate evenings do not, and never have, and I have stopped trying. I live alone, I can host, and I am on the south side within reach of the centre.
Not looking for anybody who wants a night out. Not looking for a person who will tell me they are not a morning person but are willing to try, because three people have said that and none of them arrived. Not looking for anything at the weekend, which belongs to my family.