Both of us lead, which took two years to work out how to do
Posted as two_women_vacancy
- Looking for
- one submissive who genuinely wants two people to answer to
- Experience
- Together nine years, both experienced separately before that.
- Around
- Barra, Rio de Janeiro
We are both dominant. When we met that was a problem and we spent about two years working out that it was only a problem if we needed each other to be the other thing, which we did not.
Forty two and forty five, Barra, together nine years. What we would like is one submissive, of any gender, for a long arrangement with both of us. That is a stranger request than it sounds, because two dominants is not twice as much of anything. It is two sets of standards, two tempers to read, and a real chance of feeling outnumbered when there is a disagreement.
We have thought hard about that last part. Anything concerning all three of us is discussed with all three present. A complaint about one of us never has to go through the other. Either of those rules being broken would be the end of it and we would say so.
What we want is regular rather than constant. Two evenings most weeks, some weekend days, and standing rules in between. We are in Barra, we can host, and one of us drives and does not mind it.
Not looking for a live in arrangement. Not looking for anybody who wants to play us off against each other, which we have seen once and stopped immediately. Not looking for somebody hoping this becomes a romance between three people, because it is not, and saying it now is kinder than saying it in month five.