Two days of rain and my street is not somewhere anybody drives
Posted as when_it_rains
- Looking for
- a dominant who can be relaxed about a cancelled evening in March
- Experience
- Nine years, two dynamics, one lost over a bad summer of weather.
- Around
- the north zone, Rio de Janeiro
When it rains properly here the bottom of my street becomes a river and the buses stop coming up the hill. That is not a colourful way of describing an inconvenience. It happens several times a year and when it does I am not going anywhere and neither is anybody else.
Forty one, up in the north zone, submissive, nine years. I have cancelled on people for this and been believed and I have cancelled on people for this and not been believed, and the second kind never lasted long afterwards. So I want somebody who takes it as information. If I say I cannot come, I cannot come, and it is not a mood and it is not a test.
What I want otherwise is straightforward and long. A dominant who runs things properly, standing rules, tasks, and a regular evening when the city allows it. Service is the part I care about most. I am not interested in pain and never have been.
I live alone, which at my age here is a small victory, and I can host if you are willing to come up. I am practical and unromantic in writing and much warmer in person, which I am told is disconcerting.
Not looking for anybody who needs every arrangement to hold. Not looking for a person who will suggest I move somewhere more convenient, which has been said to me twice and is not a serious suggestion.