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Switches the north zone, São Paulo

I work every weekend and nobody ever proposes a Tuesday

Posted as give_me_a_tuesday

Looking for
somebody who can be free in the middle of the week
Experience
Two years, one short dynamic, and a lot of unanswered messages.
Around
the north zone, São Paulo

I work in a shop and I work every Saturday and most Sundays, which is true of an enormous number of people in this city and apparently invisible to everybody writing personal advertisements. Every proposal I have received in two years has been for a Friday or a Saturday night.

Twenty five, São Paulo, switch, two years in, one dynamic that lasted three months and ended when he could not find a Tuesday either.

My days off are Monday and Tuesday. On those days I am completely free, awake, and in a city where everything is quiet and cheap and nobody is queueing for anything. It is genuinely the best time to do almost anything here and I cannot get anybody to believe me.

What I want is something regular with one person. I lean towards following, though I have done a little of both and I liked leading more than I expected. I am interested in rules and in being given things to do, and I am not interested in pain at all.

I live with a friend from work in a small place in the north and I cannot host.

I am cheerful and I talk a lot and I am not remotely mysterious. I would like to be friends first because everyone I have met in this has become a friend or nothing, and the friends have been better.

If your week is also upside down, please write. There are thousands of us and we never seem to find each other.

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