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Dominants the west zone, São Paulo

Forty messages a week and almost nothing in any of them

Posted as nobody_says_anything

Looking for
one person who can write four sentences about themselves
Experience
Twelve years leading, two dynamics, one lasting six years.
Around
the west zone, São Paulo

I get a lot of messages and I have started counting how many contain an actual sentence about the person who sent them. Last week it was three out of thirty one. The rest were a greeting, a compliment about a photograph that does not exist on this board, and a question about what I am into.

Thirty nine, São Paulo, dominant, twelve years. I am not complaining about volume. I am complaining about the fact that answering any of these requires me to do all the work of starting a conversation, and I have done that four hundred times and I am finished with it.

So here is what I want, and it is not much. Tell me what you do with your days. Tell me what you have tried and what you thought of it. Tell me one thing that has gone wrong for you in this and what you learned. Four sentences. If you can do that, I will write you a real answer, at length, and I answer everybody who does.

What I am looking for is a long dynamic with a submissive who has a full life of their own. Structure, service, daily contact. I am not interested in pain in any serious quantity and I am very interested in obedience and routine.

I am in the west, I live alone, I work a normal week and I am free most evenings after eight.

I am not stern and I am not aloof. I am just tired, and this post is the tiredness talking.

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