Three weeks offshore, three weeks home, and that is my life
Posted as three_weeks_on
- Looking for
- a dominant who can run something while I am unreachable
- Experience
- Seven years, two dynamics, one ended over the rotation.
- Around
- the north zone, São Paulo
I work offshore. Three weeks on, three weeks off, and while I am out there my contact is limited and unpredictable and sometimes there is none for two days. It has been my life for nine years and it is not changing while the money is what it is.
Thirty four, São Paulo, submissive, seven years. One of my two dynamics ended because of the rotation. She did not do anything wrong. She simply needed somebody present and I am absent half the year, and by the end we were both relieved.
What worked in the other one was structure that did not need me to be reachable. Things I did daily on the rig and reported when I could. Rules about sleep and exercise and how I spent the hours I had. A long call once a week if the connection allowed. And then, when I came home, three weeks of being completely available in a way that almost nobody with a normal job can offer.
That rhythm suits some people extremely well. I am looking for one of them.
I have an apartment in the north zone that is empty half the year, and I can host whenever I am home.
I want service and rules and being answerable, and I have very little interest in pain.
I am plain spoken and I do not write elegantly. What I do is exactly what I said I would, which out where I work is the only thing anybody is judged on.