I have met everybody in my zone, so I am looking across the city
Posted as two_hours_in_traffic
- Looking for
- a submissive on the far side who will treat the crossing as normal
- Experience
- Nineteen years leading, three dynamics, two across the city.
- Around
- the east zone, São Paulo
The circle out my way is perhaps eighty people and after nineteen years I know most of it, have led two people in it, and am friends with three others who have. That is not a scandal, it is arithmetic, and it is why I am writing this.
Forty seven, São Paulo, dominant. The far side of this city is two hours in traffic on a weekday and forty minutes on a Sunday morning, and I have done both more times than I can count. Two of my three dynamics were conducted across that gap and both worked, and I have become quite good at the shape of it.
What that shape is: a written structure that runs daily, a call at a fixed hour, and then a weekend once or twice a month where everything planned across the fortnight actually happens. Nothing is improvised. Nothing is wasted on deciding what to do.
I am looking for a submissive anywhere in this city, on any side of it, including my own if there is anybody I have somehow not met.
We would each pay our own way, always, and I would rather that were understood now than negotiated later.
I run things domestically. Service, standing rules, correction that is spoken, very little impact.
I would want to know somebody for a while first, and I am content for that to happen entirely in writing, which is the one advantage of the arrangement I am describing.
Not looking for anybody who treats the distance as a temporary problem that one of us will solve by moving across town. Neither of us is moving.