Add three months to anybody who says the harbour is not a problem
Posted as bridge_not_detail
- Looking for
- somebody on this side of the water, or genuinely honest about the trip
- Experience
- Twelve years, four dynamics, all four ended over the same thing.
- Around
- the north shore, Sydney
When somebody in the inner west tells me the harbour is not a problem, I have learned to add three months and then wait. It is always a problem. Not at first. At about week seven, on a wet Tuesday, when the traffic is stopped and neither of us can face it.
Forty one, the north shore, submissive, twelve years in. I have had four things end this way and not one of them ended over anything else.
So I am being blunt about geography, which I know reads as narrow. I want somebody on this side of the water, or somebody in the inner city who is honest with themselves about doing that trip most weeks for a long time. If you have not done it regularly you do not yet know whether you will keep doing it, and I would rather you found out before I am attached to you.
Otherwise: a long dynamic, weekly, with real structure and a fair amount of formality in it. I am not interested in occasional. I have tried occasional and it made me feel like an errand somebody was running.
I can host. I live alone, my place is quiet and warm, which in this city is a genuine boast. Not looking for anybody who will tell me the trip is nothing. Not looking for a first meeting that requires either of us to cross anything at the wrong time of day.