An hour and a half from work, a mortgage, and nobody willing to drive
Posted as mortgage_and_mistake
- Looking for
- a dominant out this way, or one who genuinely does not mind a drive
- Experience
- Six years, one dynamic since the divorce, ended over the distance.
- Around
- the west, Sydney
I bought a house an hour and a half from work because it was the only place the numbers made any sense, and three years later I have a house, a mortgage, a very long drive and almost no life. I do not want sympathy about it. I want to be honest about where I am, on a map and otherwise.
Forty six, the west, submissive, six years in. Divorced, no children, one dynamic since the split that lasted eight months and ended when she got tired of the drive, which she had every right to be.
The house is the one asset in this post. It is warm, it is private, the nearest neighbour is not close, and I can host anything at any hour. Nobody wants to come out here, which is the joke that writes itself.
What I want is a dominant who lives out this way or genuinely does not mind a drive. Something regular and long. I like service, I like being given a job, and I am better at this than I am at almost anything else in my life at the moment.
Not looking for anybody who will come once, decide it is too far, and then let it fade over a month. Say no now. Not looking for anybody who needs to be in the city to enjoy an evening. Not looking to move, before that gets suggested, because I cannot.