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Dominants the west, Sydney

On site by six, finished by nine at night, and the board wakes up at ten

Posted as up_at_five

Looking for
a submissive who is fine with things happening in daylight
Experience
Twelve years, two long arrangements, both run on Saturday afternoons.
Around
the west, Sydney

I am up at half past four and on site by six. By nine at night I am finished, and I mean finished, not being polite about it. This is the single thing that has ended every conversation I have had on here, because the entire board apparently comes alive at ten in the evening.

Forty one, the west, dominant, twelve years in, on the tools since I was seventeen. What I have is weekend afternoons, most Saturdays, and the occasional early finish on a Friday.

What I want is a submissive who is fine with things happening in daylight. It is not a preference, it is when I exist. Two of the best arrangements I have had ran entirely on Saturday afternoons and neither of us ever felt short changed by it.

I am not complicated and I do not use much of the language people use on here. I like being in charge, I like somebody who does what they are asked without a negotiation every time, and I am careful and I check. I have never hurt anybody in a way that was not agreed and I have never needed to raise my voice to be listened to.

Not looking for anybody who wants to message all evening, because I will be asleep. Not looking for anybody who thinks a tradesman is a character in a film. Not looking for anything that starts after dinner.

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