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Dominants the inner west, Sydney

The cold half of the year is the best of it and nobody says so

Posted as winter_is_my_season

Looking for
a submissive who wants a long evening in a warm room once a week
Experience
Sixteen years, understated, four dynamics of real length.
Around
the inner west, Sydney

Winter is the best time of year for this and I do not understand why so few people say so. Dark by five, nobody wants to be out, everybody is home, and the whole city stops pretending it has somewhere better to be. From June to August I have had the best months of every dynamic I have ever run.

Summer is the opposite. Everybody is at the coast, half the people I know vanish in January, and the heat turns anything indoors into an endurance event. I am at my least interested in December and I have stopped fighting it.

Forty three, the inner west, dominant, sixteen years in. What I want is a submissive who wants a long evening in a warm room once or twice a week, and who is not going to take offence when I am noticeably less available in high summer.

I lead in a way that people describe as understated. I do not perform, I do not raise my voice, and most of what I do is attention and expectation rather than anything anybody would call dramatic.

Not looking for anything at events. Not looking for a submissive who wants a lot of contact through the summer, because I will disappoint you. Not looking to be talked into starting something in November, which is the worst month of the year to begin anything at all.

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